Dating a nerdy guy
"There weren't a lot of people using the Internet to date back then," she says."I had to go to Kinko's and scan in a picture of myself for my profile." Soon after that, she was on a date.Of course, every nerd is unique, and nerdiness is definitely a spectrum, but there are some general guidelines that can help make your nerdy relationship work.First, you’ll need to understand how to spark a nerd’s interest.We know it’s a stereotype, but sometimes women pine after the rebellious cool guy, the one that mothers hate and girlfriends envy. Cool, the undiscovered nerd is standing in the shadows waiting to be noticed. We’re referring to that bespeckled guy that you overlooked so many years ago because he wasn’t cool.
He wants to get to know you and feel comfortable with a real lady."I'm a lawyer, and it's a job that takes up a lot of time," she says."I didn't know how I was going to meet someone, especially when with what little free time I had I wanted to spend it with my friends." Heeding advice from friends living in New York City, Allison turned to the Internet.Moreover, while nerd-dom is now mainstream (even cool), it wasn't always this way and many nerds grew up suffering at the hands of dumb jocks or b*tchy mean girls.To succeed with him, show him you aren't one of those people and that he's awesome exactly the way he is.
May be involved in an Ugly Duckling Beautiful All Along story if they do get paired off with someone.